Children are the reflection of PARENTS

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My strengths

It has never happened to you that when your children do or say something, you say... Oh my God, that's ME!!!

Many times I have seen my attitudes in my daughters and they are not always the best (don't judge me, but I am an imperfect mother). So, that is when I pause to analyze myself. Is not difficult!! Believe me!! 

The main idea is to think about its possible corrections. If I have always been aware of something, it is that being a mother implies a lot of responsibility, but that does not rule out having my own family from my mind. I have seen how my mother fought for us to move forward and I have never heard that she regretted having fertilized 4 children. Never! That's why she is the woman I admire the most in the world. 

Throughout my life, I have had successes and also many mistakes, but is part of my personal experience. I know that the world has become very competitive and we want to stand out from others, whether it is having a nice and luxurious house, modern car, fashionable clothes, titles to show, and being accepted by society, but what matters is how you feel about how little or how much you achieved in your life journey.

And if my advice is useful to you at all, enjoy your adolescence, and youth so that later you are not complaining to your children that because of them you did not enjoy all those stages to their fullest, because since we assumed the role of parents, 
It is necessary to pause to think and rethink if we are really good educators of our little ones.

And have you seen yourself reflected in your children's attitudes?

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Los niños son el reflejo de los PADRES 

Nunca te ha pasado que cuando tus hijos hacen o dicen algo, tú dices ... Oh por Dios, esa soy YO!!!

Muchas veces he visto mis actitudes reflejadas en mis hijas y no siempre son las mejores (no me juzgues, pero soy una mamá imperfecta), es ahí cuando hago una pausa para autoanalizarme. No es difícil!! Créeme!! la idea principal es pensar es sus posibles correcciones y buscar ayuda de ser el caso. 

Si de algo siempre he sido consciente es que ser mamá implica mucha responsabilidad, pero no por eso descarté de mi mente tener mi propia familia. 

He visto como mi madre luchó por nosotros para sacarnos adelante y jamás escuché que se haya arrepentido de haber fecundado 4 hijos. Jamás!!! Por eso, ella es la mujer que más admiro en el mundo. 

A lo largo de mi vida he tenido aciertos y también muchísimos errores, pero es parte de mi vivencia personal. Sé que el mundo se ha vuelto muy competitivo y queremos sobresalir de los demás, ya sea adquiriendo una casa bonita y lujosa, carro moderno, ropa de moda, títulos para mostrar y ser aceptado por la sociedad, pero lo que realmente importa es como TÚ te sientes de lo poco o mucho que conseguiste en tu recorrido vivencial.  

Si de algo te sirve mi consejo, disfruta tu adolescencia, juventud para que después no estés quejándote con tus hijos que por culpa de ellos no disfrutaste todas esas etapas en plenitud, porque desde que asumimos el rol de padres, es necesario hacer muchísimas pausas para pensar y repensar si realmente somos buenos educadores de nuestros pequeños. 

Y tú te has visto reflejado en las actitudes de tus hijos? 







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