My 3 Caesarean section

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I remember perfectly that they questioned the way I brought my daughters into the world, and I will never forget this malicious comment. You don't know what it's like to give birth to a baby! 
A phrase that was generated for the simple reason of not having given birth traditionally, that is, vaginal birth.

Maybe I don't know what labor contractions, dilation, and pushing hard are, but I do know what it feels like when they give you spinal anesthesia, I do know what it feels like after the effect of the anesthesia wears off, and I do know perfectly well what it's like to walk with a cut approximately 6 inches long, yes I know what it feels like not to be able to stand up and walk normally to take care of your daughter, clearly I do know the meaning of the word LABOR PAIN, but all that pain is insignificant when you look at your baby next to you and the nurse places it on your chest to give it its first caress.

Just like that, now I am a happy woman who wears her scar with great pride.

And does it make you happy to have brought your son into the world through a cesarean section?

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Mis 3 cesáreas

Recuerdo perfectamente que cuestionaron la forma de como traje al mundo a mis hijas, y es que jamás olvidaré este comentario mal intencionado. Tú no sabes que es parir a un bebé! una frase que se generó por la sencilla razón de no haber parido de la forma tradicional osea parto vaginal. 

Quizás no sé que son contracciones de parto, dilatación y pujar fuerte, pero si SÉ que se siente cuando te ponen la anestesia espinal, si SÉ como se siente después que pasa el efecto de la anestesia, si SÉ perfectamente que es andar con un corte de aproxidamente 17 cm de largo, si SÉ que se siente no poder pararte y caminar normal para atender a tu bebé cuando llora, claramente si SÉ el significado de la palabra DOLOR DE PARTO, pero definitivamente todo ese dolor es insignificante cuando observas a tu bebé a tu lado y especialmente cuando la enfermera le coloca sobre tu pecho para darle su primera caricia. 

Así de simple, ahora soy una mujer feliz que LUCE su cicatriz con mucho orgullo. 

Y a tí te hace feliz haber traído a tu hijo al mundo a través de una cesária? 














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