My computer and ME!

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When I met you I knew you were for me. Plop!

This phrase is from a song but it fits very well with my computer, and it has been my best anti-stress for many years.

Nobody teaches us to be parents, we can read many books, analyze them, and be clear about what we want for them, but everyday life is completely different.

Emotions often play a very important role in us being able to be an excellent guide for our children, therefore, we must ask ourselves... What can I do to let my emotions flow and not interfere with my personal and family goals?

I found in Microsoft Word, a friend to whom I could talk about my emotions until I was tired, without hearing reproaches or questioning of my decisions, and even worse that phrase “I told you so.”

I don't consider myself introverted, but I do consider myself realistic, and I knew that if I wanted one of my friends to listen to me, I had to accommodate myself to her time. You know, all people go about their business and even more so when they have children, time is golden.

Writing while listening to my favorite sounds relaxes me.

Another way I relax is dancing at home. I often do it alone, and sometimes, my youngest daughter joins me. Being active really brightens my day. Getting rid of clothes or things I don't use at home is probably another way I relax. You can't imagine how happy it makes me to get rid of things I no longer need or that have reached the end of their useful life. I feel free!


And what relaxes you?


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Mi computadora y yo!


Cuando te conocí supe que eras para mí. Plop!
Esta frase es de una canción pero que cuadra muy bien con mi computadora, y es que ella, ha sido mi mejor antiestrés por muchos años. 
Nadie nos enseña ser padres, podemos leer muchos libros, analizarlos, tener claro lo que uno quiere para ellos, pero la vida cotidiana es completamente diferente. 
Las emociones muchas veces juegan un rol muy importante en nosotros para poder ser un excelente guía de nuestros hijos, por ello, debemos preguntarnos... 
¿Qué puedo hacer para dejar fluir mis emociones y que no interfieran en mis metas personales y familiares?
Yo encontré en Microsoft Word, una amiga a quien podía hablarle de mis emociones hasta el cansancio, sin escuchar reproches o cuestionamientos de mis decisiones, peor aún esa frase “Te lo dije”
No me considero introvertida, pero si realista y sabía que si quería que una de mis amigas me escuchara tenía que acomodarme a su tiempo. Tú sabes, todas las personas andan en sus cosas y más aún cuando tienen hijos, el tiempo es oro. 
Teclear escuchando mis sonidos favoritos, me relaja. 
Otra manera de relajarme es bailando en casa, muchas veces lo hago sola y en algunas ocasiones me acompaña la última de mis hijas, realmente estar en movimiento me alegra el día. Probablemente, eliminar ropas o cosas que no utilizo en casa, sea otra manera de relajarme, no te imaginas como me hace feliz deshacerme de cosas que ya no me sirven o que ya cumplieron su ciclo de via, me siento libre!! 

 Y a tí que te relaja?











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