Walking with MOTHERHOOD!

Picture of Google I remember perfectly that they questioned the way I brought my daughters into the world, and I will never forget this malicious comment. You don't know what it's like to give birth to a baby!  A phrase that was generated for the simple reason of not having given birth traditionally, that is, vaginal birth. Maybe I don't know what labor contractions, dilation, and pushing hard are, but I do know what it feels like when they give you spinal anesthesia, I do know what it feels like after the effect of the anesthesia wears off, and I do know perfectly well what it's like to walk with a cut approximately 6 inches long, yes I know what it feels like not to be able to stand up and walk normally to take care of your daughter, clearly I do know the meaning of the word  LABOR PAIN , but all that pain is insignificant when you look at your baby next to you and the nurse places it on your chest to give it its first caress. Just like that, now I am a happy woman...

Created by Flordeliz GAHI Failed in math! I know. But really this phrase  LESS IS MORE , I love putting it into practice in my home. You remember that I said that I am a fan of order and cleanlines s. Well, yes! Not only that, everything must be organized; As I tell my girls, each object has its own little house. I love that the objects that surround me or are part of me, whether due to color, design, or shape, brighten my life and make me look optimistically in my days. I believe that objects that serve no purpose in my home only absorb my energy, and  boy do I need it! That is why those useless objects are quickly expelled from my space. S ince I started earning my own money my eyes only focused on the pretty things, I looked at it and looked at it again to see if it would be useful to me, if it matched my space, and if it was in perfect condition to take with me. A little exaggerated, right? but I never bought just to buy, maybe because I never had any money left over or be...

Picture of Google W hen I met you I knew you were for me. Plop! T his phrase is from a song but it fits very well with my computer, and it has been my best anti-stress for many years. N obody teaches us to be parents, we can read many books, analyze them, and be clear about what we want for them, but everyday life is completely different. Emotions often play a very important role in us being able to be an excellent guide for our children, therefore, we must ask ourselves... What can I do to let my emotions flow and not interfere with my personal and family goals? I found in Microsoft Word ,   a friend to whom I could talk about my emotions until I was tired, without hearing reproaches or questioning of my decisions, and even worse that phrase “I told you so.” I don't consider myself introverted, but I do consider myself realistic, and I knew that if I wanted one of my friends to listen to me, I had to accommodate myself to her time. You know, all people go about their business an...

Picture of Google 24 hours a day, 7 days a week we are pursued by online advertisements of all kinds.  So I started thinking about how to make money quickly. 1st option: Do crazy things on social media. 2nd option: Dance almost naked to earn likes. 3rd option: Dress extravagantly and post photos on social media. 4th option: Participate with my entire family making videos that cause laughter and making myself look ridiculous in front of thousands of people. 5th option: Promote stupid challenges that can harm my life and the lives of others. ... U nfortunately, I don't like any option and there are things that money can't buy, such as my  INTERIOR PEACE. Contributing good things to humanity is my first and only option, perhaps I will not have the intelligence of Albert Einstein, but I have every desire to do good for my neighbor. I miss those times of my childhood, when you greeted people without knowing them, simply because greeting was the first thing our parents taught us and...

If I know that too much cigarette smoking could cause me many illnesses, then why do I consume a box a day? If I know that excess drugs cause addiction to me, then why do I use them? If I know that excess junk food affects my health then why do I consume it daily? If I know that excessive video games cause addiction, then why don't I set limits? If I know that surrounding myself with toxic people causes me stress then why don't I avoid them? D on't I have control of myself? W e can achieve a change in our bad habits and customs if and only if we have the WILL to achieve it. S ometimes we make so many excuses to keep falling into the same thing, knowing that we are self-destructing but that's just how human beings are, some weaker than others. I f you can't achieve for yourself, then you can seek help, not necessarily a professional, because you will use the excuse that you don't have money. But in this world, there are also good and kind people, those vitami...

My strengths It has never happened to you that when your children do or say something, you say...  Oh my God, that's ME!!! Many times I have seen my attitudes in my daughters and they are not always the best (don't judge me, but I am an imperfect mother).  So, that is when I pause to analyze myself.  Is not difficult!! Believe me!!  The main idea is to think about its possible corrections. If I have always been aware of something, it is that being a mother implies a lot of responsibility, but that does not rule out having my own family from my mind. I have seen how my mother fought for us to move forward and I have never heard that she regretted having fertilized 4 children. Never! That's why she is the woman I  admire  the most in the world.  Throughout my life, I have had successes and also many mistakes, but is part of my personal experience. I know that the world has become very competitive and we want to stand out from others, whether it is having...